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jim rembisz's avatar

Blessings and His peace, Tom. What loving memories you gave to Brendan as he did for you. Joni and I lift you and your family in prayer. Thank you for sharing this story from your heart. I’m calling my friend from my band who lives in NJ to plan a visit. His wife recently passed; John shared a similar story about his son—an apple in his eye, a promising Navy career, all seemed rosy, but . . . I was honored to pipe him home at Washington Crossings Military Cemetery.

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Allen F. Richardson's avatar

Oh my God, Tom. You describe a day of absolute bliss, and days of unimaginable tragedy. And as you say, at one point in our aging, we come to realize who and what we are, and what we will then be. I will think of you always now, cherishing that you still have moments at the Long Wharf.

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Tom Clavin's avatar

Thank you. Hope all is well in CT.

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Prairie Rose's avatar

Grieving with holidays coming up is very difficult. 💗

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Tom Clavin's avatar

You bet.

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Paul Clinton's avatar

I have enjoyed every column you’ve written, but this touched my heart and soul more than most. My wife and I have experienced similar situations with a child. The day you wrote about was magical for both of you. Your words and thoughts are very meaningful and I thank you so much.

Paul

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Tom Clavin's avatar

Thank you.

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Prairie Rose's avatar

Enjoy, grandpa

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Jack Kelly's avatar

Thanks for sharing this, Tom. The capacity to be human in the face of darkness and the ability to communicate the experience through words are profound, and they touch chords in many hearts.

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Tom Clavin's avatar

Thank you.

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